The Approach: In his mind, he's a big league athlete, so compliment his physique, and be specific ("You have great triceps").
The Guy: Whether he loves football or baseball, basketball or soccer or rugby, his dream girl is a sexy, fun, low-maintenance, bust-open-a-beer cheerleader for "Team Him." He loves the gym, loves sports, and will wear his team's jerseys to your grandparents' 50th wedding anniversary party.
Kids won't change it either; he'll want to teach them to love the Jets/Bulls/Yankees as much as he does. He loves women, but not in the most modern, equality-driven way, and he wants his girlfriend (or wife) to be sexy.
The Approach: Be hot, but don't dress in the "screw-me" dress or that's all you'll get.
"It's all about the first look," says Bechir, "an outfit that compliments you best feature: breasts, ass, legs, whatever you got. He thinks his brain is his best feature, so make it seem sexy.
Look good with just a hint of 'freak' that might be his later. " Let him talk about himself, because this guy values a supportive woman more than an intellectual one. And use the following phrase: "You are really cute, I love your (insert desirable quality here)." He'll fall all over himself if he thinks you might give him the rock-star sex that he spends good money to watch on the internet.
"I want a loyal woman who is gonna take care of me when it counts ," says Hector, 27, "the kitchen and the bedroom." Two guys high-five behind him, but I look a little uncomfortable until Hector's friend jumps in: "Cook him dinner! " Warning: Cook like his mom, but don't smell like his mom. And most importantly, don't confuse "supportive" with "vapid." Make jokes, show some spirit, and don't overdo it. But be careful: these guys make great best friends, but move from "buddy" to "relationship" quickly or you could slip into the "best-friend-with benefits" zone. The Guy: Hot, interesting, mysterious and full of possibilities... This guy is unpredictable, and no matter how many times he forgets to call or issues last minute invitations, there is a certain brilliance and sensitivity and excitement about him. Approach: "If you're hot enough or I have nothing better, you're in," says Marco, 23, who claims he 'really means well every time [he] screws up.' Be interested, fun and up for anything, but not needy.
If there's a small something you don’t like about him, don't lie; turn it into a positive. The Guy: Forget coy smiles from across the bar; this guy won't approach you. Warning: These guys usually have a hobby or interest you don't understand--RPG's, outfits and role-play your way to Geek Love. In fact, don't need anything, because you won't get it. He will crush your heart into pieces, and then snort them up his nose.If he's pudgy, call him your "pudgy bear." Then have crazy sex with him. In his mind he's still the skinny dork standing on the sidelines of the school dance. This is all about him, and if you're open to adventure and don't mind clutching coat tails, he'll be happy to take you for a wild ride. If you still want to pursue him, go into your room and draw a map of where you're about to hide your self-esteem, because you won't be able to find it later. Despite their differences, there was one thing that all the men agreed upon: If you have goals for a guy beyond the end of the evening, don't look slutty or be crude in public; we don't want to take that home to mom. Women want to know what men want, and men—when plied with alcohol—want to tell them. But every man doesn't see 'hot' the same way." Just like we wouldn't use a monkey wrench to put up drywall, you'll need different tools depending on what kind of guy you're trying to land. Lots of arm-touching and bicep squeezing is good; make him feel strong (Hint: We love it when you say, "Can you open this? Women spend much more time pondering our desires and motivations than than we do, but nobody said we don't value introspection. "Men, instinctively gotta hunt," says Bechir, 26, "and what we hunt is hot women. He spends time on this, and he’ll be psyched you noticed.So armed with a pen and an open bar tab, I set out to find the information that will help you snag your man. More and more women are holding off on relationships—at least for a while—and, like countless men before them, complaining that they can't get no satisfaction. The truth is, if you want to seduce a man into bed with you and he doesn’t have what he thinks is a "better" option, you just have to lay it out there. ") Drink a beer, not a martini, and ask him to play a game of darts or pool.Emphasis on 'action.' So the first question I posed to the motley mass: "What should a woman do to get your interest if they want to sleep with you? Even if you suck, he'll love teaching you the game. "And ask him if he ever played sports," said Mark, 31, to grunts of approval all around.