Instead, you'd wait for decent offers from multiple buyers, and only close the deal when you got the proposal that you really wanted, maybe for even more than you wanted.Question: Would you only show your property to a buyer who wasn't sure he really wanted to live there?Even if he said he liked it, even loved it, but wasn't quite ready to buy right now (because he secretly thought that he'd find something better)?
The typical male has no reason to believe that being an indefinite boyfriend is actually a problem. Men love No Time-Frame Dating because if you fall for it, they don't have to worry about competing for you with other (hot) men.
What guy wouldn't want to keep the audition process going as long as possible if they thought they could get away with it?
When you don't set clear limits up-front, they get the luxury of taking you out of the field and keeping you in "audition mode" indefinitely.
No-Time-Frame Dating allows men to date you, have sex with you, be monogamous with you, and still never marry you.
This is how we let men take minimum risks, while receiving maximum pleasure.
Imagine you owned a lovely home on a piece of prime real estate.
You watered the lawn, manicured the bushes, painted the interior, and put it up on the market.
You'd never sell it at a rock bottom prices, fearing that no one else would make and offer.
Instead, you put the property on hold for him indefinitely, let him live in it for free, gave away your cats because he was allergic to them..slept with him, too! You voluntarily commit yourself to a string of relationships that fail to yield long-term commitment, marriage, or family.
You unwisely agree to open-ended monogamy in the hopes that men will step up if you just love 'em enough.
This is like offering men an uncollateralized loan of your emotional capital.