Most guys don't know what these mistakes are, and even more don't know how to correct them.
Inner game is probably one of the most popular subjects in dating science.
It's a major sticking point for nearly everyone who has trouble talking to women and it's a problem that can be difficult to fix as well, since it tends to be rooted in a lifetime's worth of negative beliefs that are based on things like fear and rejection.
Inner game is also a topic that I think can only be discussed from a personal level.
That is, I can't convince you how to think or look at life differently. However, I can tell you how I overcame the very same problems, and hope that you can learn from my experiences.
It's only when we're thrown into situations that are unfamiliar to us that we start to lose confidence in ourselves.
The sad and somewhat ironic reality is that most men are not comfortable talking to women simply because they don't talk to women!
It's a negative feedback loop that's perpetuated by a fear of "what might go wrong." This is bullshit!
To me, inner game problems boil down to two things: your experience and your mindset.
Every problem you run into with not just women, but life itself, can be attributed to one of these two areas.
I'm going to get into both of these, and give some personal insights, so hopefully by the end of this newsletter you'll have a clearer understanding of what exactly it is that you need to work on to fix your own issues.
When people ask me how I developed the kind of "rock solid confidence" that allowed me to put myself out there on national TV, I always answer the same way: "Practice." When you think about what confidence actually is you realize that it's simply doing something that you've done enough times to be comfortable with.